“Healthy relationships are happy relationships.” Judith A. Swack, Ph.D.

What is marriage?

At its best it is a lifetime together, a partnership with someone you like, respect, and love. You share resources and use your differences to complement each other by sharing your strengths. This creates a synergy that stimulates continuous growth, and evolution.
In a healthy marriage you:

• Take care of each other, and do what you can to make each other happy. In other words it makes you feel happy when the other person is happy
• Are nice to each other. Knowing your partner’s sore spots, you are gentle with them in those areas and you encourage them to get help if they need it
• Have regular sex, and are willing to do whatever you can to preserve that form of closeness. This includes dealing with the natural physical problems of aging and age-related health problems
• Are each better together than you are apart

Whether you’re single or in a long-term, committed relationship or marriage HBLU^TM can help you create the healthy, happy partnership you want by:

• Discovering what type of relationship you are ready for.
• Helping you release yourself from unhealthy relationships or relationships that aren’t going anywhere.
• Clearing dysfunctional family patterns so that you don’t unconsciously reproduce them in your current relationship.
• Healing trauma from divorce, death, betrayal, abandonment, etc. so that you can start fresh.
• Clearing distorted ideas, assumptions, limiting beliefs, and negative feelings about men, women, gender roles, relationships, marriage, etc.
• Helping you understand and appreciate each other’s Enneagram personality type so that you can complement each other.
• Teaching you state of the art communication skills.
• Helping you discover the surprisingly simple ways to make each other feel loved.

With HBLU^TM you work together to create a unique partnership that is ideal for both of you.

We’ve helped people in their twenties, we’ve helped people in their seventies.
Whether it’s your first or your fifth, HBLU^TM helps people get and stay happily married.

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